Finding the right host family is the most important step in becoming a successful au pair in the USA. The perfect match isn’t just about location or pay—it’s about trust, communication, and shared values.
In this article, we’ll show you how to match with a family that fits your personality, goals, and lifestyle—and how we can help you through every step of the process.
1. Know What You Want
Before matching, ask yourself:
What kind of children do I enjoy working with (toddlers, school-aged, teens)?
Do I prefer a big city, small town, or suburb?
Am I comfortable with pets or a vegetarian family?
What are my expectations for free time, curfew, and privacy?
Being clear about your preferences helps avoid mismatches later.
2. Create a Strong Au Pair Profile
Your profile is your chance to show host families who you really are. Include:
A warm, friendly introduction letter
Photos with children and family
A short video introducing yourself
Honest childcare experience descriptions
Hobbies, goals, driving ability, education
Tip: Families want someone confident, caring, and responsible. We help you polish your profile to stand out.
3. Prepare for the Host Family Interview
Once a family shows interest, you’ll do a video call to see if it’s a good fit.
Questions to ask them:
What are the kids like?
What’s your daily routine?
What do past au pairs say about living with you?
How much freedom will I have on weekends or holidays?
Questions they might ask you:
How do you handle conflict with kids?
What’s your favorite way to spend time with children?
Are you okay with cooking or driving？
Be honest—this is your future home, not a job interview!
4. Look Beyond the Surface
A family may have a great house in LA or NYC—but that doesn’t mean they’re right for you.
The best matches usually involve:
Clear communication style
Similar lifestyle pace
Willingness to treat you like family
Respect for your personal time and culture
Some au pairs bond for life with their host families and stay in touch for years!
5. Red Flags to Watch For
Avoid families that:
Expect you to work overtime without extra pay
Don’t clearly define your duties or schedule
Don’t seem interested in learning about your background
Speak negatively about past au pairs without explanation
We carefully screen all host families and support you if any issues come up before or during the match.
6. How We Support Your Matching Process
When you apply through us, we:
Guide you in writing a winning profile
Recommend families that match your style
Help schedule interviews & prepare for questions
Offer honest feedback after each meeting
Ensure everything follows U.S. government rules
You never go through this alone—our team and U.S. partner agencies are with you every step of the way.
Hear from Au Pairs Who Found the Right Family
“At first, I thought I wanted to live in New York. But I matched with a lovely family in North Carolina—and it was the best decision ever!” – Lara, Spain
“My host parents asked great questions during the interview. I felt respected from day one.” – Jiahao, China
“We talked for over an hour. I knew right away that we’d get along. Their two kids now call me their ‘big sister’.” – Thandi, South Africa
The perfect host family might not be perfect on paper—but they’ll feel right in your heart. Be honest, stay open-minded, and communicate clearly.
Ready to find your ideal match in 2025? Contact us and start building your profile today!
